Testing My Luck: November 2010

Friday, November 26, 2010

Tested by Time

This post is quite long and personal.

Have you seen the movie Sa'yo Lamang? When I saw it on DVD, my reaction was what a familiar story. It was almost my family's life rolled into a film.

The biggest influence on my character today is when my parents separated nine years ago. Me and my siblings lived with my mom and she did her best to provide for us. When my parents separated, all of us were still studying. I am in college, the next two are in high school and the youngest in elementary.

Being the eldest in four kids, I strived to make things a little easy on her. At first year college, I was accepted in my school's student assistance program which granted me a 60% discount on tuition and miscellaneous fees. The following year, I was accepted as a scholar of Trend Micro Incorporated. From second year until I graduated, TMI paid for my school fees. I worked in their office before I go to class for my stipend.

All those years, many were sacrificed. It was just my mom and us, we got no to very little support from my father. Because of that, I learned to be mindful of every decision I make. I learned to prioritize my needs against my wants because every peso counts. I was like a breadwinner at an early age.

That experience made me realize that I am really a family person. I made up my mind that I wanted to have a family of my own. When I met my hubby, we clicked because we have the same views about family life. Now, we are blessed with two kids.

Even now that I already have my own family, I still look after my brother and sisters. I'm still their big sister anyway. When they are in trouble, I find out and I stress myself to fix their mess. That's always been the case and somehow, I get tired of it but I can't let it go because they're family.

My parents have become civil to each other. My father has been jobless for the past two years and all of us gives him something even when we didn't get the support we needed from him when we were growing up. He stresses me from time to time because his being proud gets me in trouble and I don't like it. It stresses the hell out of me.

I was such a mabarkada person when I was younger. When my parents parted ways, that changed because I have to look after my siblings and help my mom. All of us finished college and I think that is already a reward for our sacrifices. I would never be as strong as I am now if not for all those hardships we encountered as we were growing up.

I strongly believe that change is permanent. Ironic, isn't it? Everything changes through time. I am still stubborn at times and I still can't say no even if I really should. That's the case with my father. I can't shove him away even if that's what I should do. Maybe in time I'll learn to change that so I won't be stressed as I am now.

Friday, November 19, 2010

I Support Mhel's Christmas Card

I'm supporting blankPixels' entry to Sulit's Christmas card-making contest. Click here for more details.

(Preview only. Click here for the full animated Christmas card.)

Thirty on 30: BlankPixel's GIveaway

Mhel or BlankPixels is having a huge giveaway. When she was looking for sponsors, I didn't hesitate to sign-up because I know this giveaway will be a blast. She is giving away loads of prizes and there are so many ways to win too!

blankPixels' Thirty on 30 Blog Contest to celebrate her 30th birthday and Just Another Pixel's second anniversary!

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● Georyl: Blogging with my Heart ● Pop Ups of My Mind ● Blog Tactic ● Grace in Creative Life ●

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● Make Money Online and Beyond ● One Proud Momma ● Lover Mushroom ● Plate and Me ● Paula's Home ● Make More Money Online ● The Miscellaneous Me ● Here, There and Everywhere ● Travels and Explorations ● Musings of Life ● Kharen's Corner ● It's Kha ● Noypistuff ● Jennyholic, Confession of an Addict ● Deej Speaks ● Techie Things ● Cups and Lowercase ● Live for Live ● Experience of a Super Mom ● Sharing my Thoughts ● Yashiro's Journal ● Table for Five ● Internet Cafe Blog ● blankPixels – The Geek Side ●

This giveaway will end on November 30, 2010 so hurry and click on the banner above to join.

Wednesday, November 17, 2010

Jazz Shoppe Giveaway

Mommy Kat of My "Tots" Exactly is hosting a giveaway sponsored by Jazz Shoppe.

She will be sponsoring one winner with Php300 worth of items from Jazz Shoppe where the winner can choose from the pre-order or on-hand items. Any amount over Php300 will be shouldered by the winner.

Also, Mommy Glen of Jazz Shoppe will be giving away the following items: (Mommy Kat will shoulder the shipping cost).

* 1 winner of 1 skirt leggings (or skirtings as I like to call them)
* 2 winners of 1 pair of leg warmers each
* 2 winners of sweat towels (2 pcs per pack)

To know about the full mechanics, click here.